Jerusalem Follow-up
The Weekly Alumni Newsletter of

The Jerusalem Fellowships
28 th of Teves, 5759 January 9, 1998



Hi Fellowshippers,

Sorry about missing last week's issue, but Rabbi Dubin was in Israel for some high level Fellowships meetings, and you all know how busy it gets around here when its Fellowships season. JFIL..., Fellowships..., Return and Learn..., Student Leaders...everyone is having the time of their lives, but all of these programs are certainly keeping us on our toes!

We're happy to announce the dates of our summer programs:

June 6 - July 4, 1999

The Jerusalem Fellowships Internship for Leaders

This program is open to college freshman, sophomores, juniors with leadership potential. The program adds elements of leadership fieldwork to our classic curriculum of Jewish Study, Israel Politics, and Touring

July 12 - August 8, 1999

The Jerusalem Fellowships Summer Break Program

This program is for graduating college seniors, grads, and young professional, as well as non-leadership oriented undergrads. Our classic curriculum.


June 13 - June 23, 1999
The Jerusalem Fellowships MBA Leadership Mission
Geared for a select group of MBA students and recent MBA graduates. Highlights of the mission will include meetings with some of Israel's most prominent venture capitalists and high-tech entrepreneurs, classes on Jewish history and philosophy, opportunities to learn about Israeli business and the economy.

Some of our best participants have been referred by you, our Fellowships alumni. Please remember to tell your friends and relatives about this summers' programs.

...and don't forget the


Return and Learn

and

Student Leadership (SL)
programs.

If you can spend at least 3 weeks participating as an SL or on R&L, we can sent you back to Israel for just $500 including airfare from NY. Programs run simultaneously with the Fellowships programs, but if you'd like to particpate on Aish HaTorah's Essentials or Jewel programs during a different time-frame, scholarships may be available as well. Call 1-800 FELLOWS for details.

Planning on spending a year in Israel?

The Alisa Flatow Memorial Scholarship Fund awards grants of up to $2500 to candidates wishing to spend a year studying Judaism in Israel. The application deadline is February 15, 1999. Find out more at www.alisafund.org.


Mazel Tovs

To Kurt (Summer '92) and Melissa Stein on the birth of a baby girl! Weighing in at 6lbs, 10 oz. The proud parents can be reached at 973-779-2021. Or emailed at Kurtmelis@aol.com.

To Jane Rudolph (Madricha on several Fellowships) on her recent engagement!

To Rabbi & Mrs. Tzvi Hochstadt (Men's program head - Summer '97) on the birth of a boy!


Getting married? Engaged? New Baby? New Job? Send your Mazel Tov announcement to jf@aish.edu and we'll post it in the next newsletter.



EMAIL ADDRESS UPDATES AND FEEDBACK

From: Jan Zalcman
Sent: January 02, 1999 6:06 PM

Subject: Re: The Jerusalem Fellowships Database Update

I got married, actually to a guy I met on the Fellowships, so my name changed to Jan Kavan. My address is 3907 Blackburn Lane, Burtonsville, Maryland 20866 (301) 476 -9743. My e-mail is jzalcm1@tiger.towson.edu Thanks for keeping me updated! I go to Towson University and graduate in a year and a half.

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Stephanie Mazis (July '98) will be working for Aish HaTorah in Washington, DC as the program Coordinator this year. Her current email address is Stephanie_Mazis@yahoo.com .

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Robert Book (June '89) is married to Mandy and they have one daughter, born in 1997 (Yocheved Yael)


Joke of the "Weak"

There once were two evil brothers. They were rich and used their money to keep their evil ways from the public eye. They attended the same temple, and to everyone else, they appeared to be perfect Jews.

One day, their rabbi retired and a new one was hired. Not only could the new rabbi see right through the brothers' deceptions, but he also spoke well and true about it. Due to the rabbi's honesty and integrity, the shul's membership grew in numbers. Eventually, a fundraising campaign was started to build a much bigger shul.

All of a sudden, one of the brothers died. The remaining brother sought out the new rabbi the day before the funeral and handed him a check for the amount needed to complete the new building. He held the check for the rabbi to see.

"I have only one condition," he said. "At the funeral, you must say my brother was a mensch. You must say those exact words."

After some thought, the rabbi gave his word and took the check. He cashed it immediately. At the funeral the next day, however, the rabbi did not hold back. "He was an evil man," he said about the dead brother. "He cheated on his wife and abused his family. Never once did he commit an unselfish act." He railed on and on about the deceased. After nearly a half hour of the evil truth, the rabbi paused and shrugged his shoulders.

Finally, he said, "But compared to his brother, he was a mensch."


Inspiration

I knew the Aish Web-site (www.aish.edu) was good, but the positive feedback we've been receiving has been downright inspirational. Here's a sample:

To: rabbi.webmaster@aish.edu

Date: Wed, 16 Dec 1998

Recently, I thought of an old friend who has really moved away from his Jewish roots. I forwarded one of your daily lifts to him, and encouraged him to check out the "cool" site of thelive imageof the wall. I know for a fact that he was really moved by some of the items in your site and will visit again.

Who knows what will come of it, but I feel good that alerting him to your site seemed to re-ignite an old spark of Jewishness in him.

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To: webmaster@aish.edu

Date: Fri, Dec 1998

Thank you for a most clear, easy to read and comprehensive answer. Due to its depth I would like to study it before replying.

I wish that this answer had been given to me when I asked the same question 30 years ago. I want to thank you again for all the thought and time you gave to this distant request.

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To: rabbi.webmaster@aish.edu

Date: Wed, 16 Dec 1998

For the first time in my life (and via the Aish commentaires and explanations) I've now come to understand the true meaning of Chanukah and what it really represents. All the emails on this have been wonderful. This explanation truly crystallized it for me. All I can say is THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.

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To: rabbi.webmaster@aish.edu

Date: Mon, 23 Nov 1998

I just finished readint eh On-line Learning: Weekly Torah Portion. I just want to compliment the authors. I found it enjoyable and educational. As a Jew, who has feeling for Yiddishkite, but doesn't go to shul weekly, I am happy to have this website to educate me and give me inspiration.

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To: rabbi.webmaster@aish.edu

Date: Tue, 15 Dec 1998

I wirte youthis mail to hank you fo rall the answeres given to my repeated questions, and to tell you that they ahve been very useful to start clarifying my sea of doubts, for I am a Jew living in Chile whose family tradition has been quite separate from our nation's identity.

Thanks again

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If you haven't visited, www.aish.edu lately, check it out for yourself.


That's it for now. We'd love to hear from you. If you receive a joke, or humorous or inspirational story in your email, forward it to us, and we may use it in an upcoming issue. Be well. Here's the Weekly....


AISH HATORAH'S
Shabbat Shalom Weekly
21st Tevet, 5759, January 9, 1999

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Aish HaTorah -- To Light the Fire of Torah in Every Jewish Heart!

GOOD MORNING! A fellow was so inspired by the story two week’s back of the young boy’s honesty in paying his bus fare, that it helped him deal with a dilemma. He had deposited 35 cents for a newspaper; after the door slammed shut, he realized that he had grabbed two papers, not one. If he kept it, he would be taking something that he hadn’t paid for. If he placed it on top of the box, somebody else would take it and he would have caused a loss to the paper. So, he reached for another 35 cents to put the paper back in (yes, he could have kept the second paper, but he didn’t want it) figuring it was a cheap price to avoid transgressing the commandment not to steal.

Here is a beautiful piece that was recently sent to me. I don’t know who wrote it, but I would like to thank him!

"THE PRESENT"

Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them work, family, health, friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four ballsfamily, health, friends and spiritare made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same.

You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How? Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special. Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.

Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life. Don’t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each other. Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.

Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings. Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, but also where you are going. Don’t forget a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated and to give love to ones family. Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.

Don’t use time or words carelessly. The hurtful things you say cannot be taken back. Neither time nor words can be retrieved. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift: that’s why we call it
the present.


TORAH PORTION: Shemot, Exodus 1:1 - 6:1

This week’s portion tells a story often repeated through history:

The Jews become prominent and numerous. There arises a new king in Egypt "who did not know Joseph" (meaning he chose not to know Joseph or recognize any debt of gratitude). He proclaims slavery for the Jewish people "lest they may increase so much, that if there is war, they will join our enemies and fight against us, driving (us) from the land."

(Anti-Semitism can thrive on any excuse; it need not be logical or real
. Buy Rabbi Motty Berger’s tape "Anti-Semitism Why Does Everyone Hate the Jews?" available for $10 from the Aish Audio Center, 13 Darby Rd., Monsey, NY 10952 or call toll free to 800-864-2373.)

Moses is born and immediately hidden because of the decree to kill all male Jewish babies. Moses is saved by Pharaoh’s daughter, grows up in the royal household, goes out to see the plight of his fellow Jews. He kills an Egyptian who was beating a Jew, escapes to Midian when the deed becomes known, becomes a shepherd, and then is commanded by G-d at the Burning Bush (no relation to the ex-President) to "bring My people out of Egypt." Moses returns to Egypt, confronts Pharaoh who refuses to give permission for the Israelites to leave. And then

G-d says, "Now you will begin to see what I will do to Pharaoh! (italics mine)

DVAR TORAH: based on Growth Through Torah by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin

The Torah states regarding Moses, "And the lad grew up. And she (Miriam) brought him to the daughter of Pharaoh and he was to her as a son. And she called his name Moshe ... because he was drawn from the water." (Exodus 2:10) Why was it necessary for Moses to grow up in Pharaoh’s court?


The Ibn Ezra notes that it is possible the Almighty had Moshe raised in the palace of the king in order for him to see royal behavior and get into the habit of acting in this manner. We see how this training helped Moshe develop into a decisive and compassionate individualhe killed an Egyptian who was beating a Jew; he rescued maidens in Midian.

One’s self image is a key factor in one’s behavior. Moshe’s self-image was of a prince growing up in the palace of an absolute monarch. This allowed him to take any action necessary to do what was right.


The most precious gift you can bestow upon any child is a positive self-image. Constant criticism and fault-finding knocks away at one’s self-esteem. A child growing up with inferiority feelings is handicapped. This will limit him in many ways. The key focus of anyone dealing with children must be, "How can I elevate this child’s self-image?"

INTERNATIONAL AISH MEETINGS
this past week in the Old City of Jerusalem, directors from Aish HaTorah branches across the world congregated to review, evaluate and plan. Under the directorship of Rabbi Noah Weinberg, in 25 years Aish has grown from 5 students to 100,000 students learning each year in our international branches and at our World Center overlooking the Western Wall. From being a complete unknown on the world scene, Aish HaTorah has become one of the leaders in outreach to Jews who come from little or no background to give them the opportunity to know the beauty, meaning and relevance of our heritage to their lives!

CANDLE LIGHTING: Jerusalem 4:15 Miami 5:28 New York 4:27 LA 4:42 Hong Kong 5:39 Singapore 6:54 Guatemala 5:30 Honolulu 5:47 J’Burg 6:46 Melbourne 8:29 London 3:54 Moscow 3:58


"QUOTE OF THE WEEK":
The only true handicap is thinking that you are handicapped.



Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Chanan Kaufman

To Laura and Sarah Blau
Happy Birthday!
Love Mom and Dad


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